Even small lies can get complicated quickly. You are better off being as honest as you can be.
"Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive"- Sir Walter Scott
It starts with just a little fib. But then the fib grows.
Free Yourself of Self-Sabotage and Self-DeceptionAuthor: Robin Oliver
Ever wonder why some people get what they want out of life and others seem to struggle? We were designed to get everything and anything out of life we could possibly desire. If you are not getting the results you want from life, you are most likely suffering from self-sabotage and self-deception.
Many of us have been mislead about how to get what we want in business and life and it has caused a lot of frustration. Many of us use excuses like the lack of money and time for not getting things done and those are never the reasons you don't get what you want.
There was a time when I used to say, "I don't have enough money, I don't have enough time". It was only self-deception and you might be doing the same thing to yourself right now.
Until we understand the cycle of self-deception, we will be unable to get consistent results. No matter how hard you're working or how much training you're getting, the results just won't come until you break the cycle of self-deception. Not understanding the cycle of self-deception creates unnecessary stress, fear, & anxiety. Once you get this you will discover the ultimate personal power to create whatever you want. You'll quit using excuses like lack of time and or money. You'll be able to get the results you want more consistently and when you don't, you'll have a clear understanding of why. The stress, anxiety and fear will become less when it comes to going after your dreams.
Ever hear that the "decision" comes first? The following quote by William Hutchinson Murry will explain why:
"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now."
This is an old school way of saying, the decision comes first. And once you make a decision in any direction, all kinds of stuff starts happening to support that decision. THE DECISION HAS TO COME FIRST.
Making the decision first often means putting your neck on the line in terms of time, money, etc. This means having to put your butt in gear to get the work done. You are 100% responsible for your results, whether you like it or not. It is never the fault of the economy, the government, society or parents, age or anything else. If you are having challenges in your business, the economy is a factor. But make no mistake about it; there are businesses that have been growing despite what is happening economically. The responsibility is always on each of us, which can be quite empowering. If you are not getting the results that you want, you have the power to change it.
You are constantly creating your reality with the universe. When you make a decision, you initiate the creative process from the inside out. It actually sends a ripple out into the universe. This is really an important thing to know. Because once you take action on that decision, the universe bends to support you.
You can break the cycle of self-deception by making a critical distinction between two four-letter words – Can't vs. Won't. 99% of the time, can't is a euphemism for won't.
Can't is really a victim word. It represents being irresponsible, being helpless, and being dishonest. Won't is an empowered word. It's responsible, it means your choice, it's also very truthful. Start bringing awareness to how often you use the word can't and moving forward, replace can't with won't. Or just be straight and say, "I don't really want to" or "I'm not willing to" or "I don't want to do what it takes". Because, if you did want it, you would make it happen. The Idea is to be honest with yourself and others.
No matter what you want to create, the decision always comes first. The proof won't show up, the money won't show up, the resources won't show up until you make the decision first. Take action now! "You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it come true" –Richard Bach
Robin Oliver, professional marketer and online business owner, teaches small business owners and entrepreneurs how to take action with their marketing in order to get more results and more profits. To learn the proven strategies that will sky-rocket your internet business, visit: http://www.PassagewayToFreedom.biz.